For example a normal Thursday conversation may go like this.
Stiemy: "KK, what would you like to eat this weekend."
KK: "I don't know, maybe a filet and sweet potatoes?"
Stiemy: "No, I was thinking fish on the grill Friday night and ribs on Saturday."
KK: "Ok, if that is what you want to do, I just kinda would like some red meat."
Stiemy: "Well, we can do that another night."
So, as you can see he already had it planned out and I just shouldn't have even made a suggestion. Well, over the weekend we had plans to gather with some friends until one of their little ones got a tummy bug, so we called off the activity. I convinced Stiemy to just roll with it and let's see what happens. He didn't hurry out to the grill, instead headed to a new festival in town and then with some other families to eat somewhere we hadn't been. I was so proud of him at the end of the night because he had been "wild with some spontaneity!"
It is fun to be a little spontaneous sometimes and you can grab fun pictures like this to prove it!